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Be honest when writing your profile

When writing your profile, it is always best to be upfront with what you want to get out of the site and what you are looking for in your match. After all it is going to ... For detail, click here.
Be interesting and creative when writing about yourself

Greetings all and thank you for the time you spend to read my little bits. The advice i am about to give is about being interesting and creative when writing about yourse ... For detail, click here.
Be precise to present your values

Ladies who want smart competent men may want to know how these men think & look for. For example: many of us, just after looking at your picture, we jump to your career, ... For detail, click here.
Be real not your dreamland

When writing about yourself, tell a few things you really do, then you can add things "I would like to venture one day." There are too many people that exercise everyday ... For detail, click here.
Be sure to have an accurate profile

Current photos, accurate age, height and weight should give your partner a realistic indication of who they have been anxiously looking forward to meeting. We all want t ... For detail, click here.
Clarify the criteria in your profile description

Instead of "I'm looking for someone fun and humorous," say, "I'm looking for a lighthearted man between the ages of 24 and 29 who enjoys the humorous side of life ... For detail, click here.
Clarity and honesty helps attract the right people

Be clear and honest with what you put on your profile. This applies equally to women and men. If you absolutely will not do something or absolutely do not want to m ... For detail, click here.
Confidence is everything!

Women (and many men) are looking for confidence in a potential mate. If your profile portrays you in an unfavorable light, your profile will be passed by. Be confident in ... For detail, click here.
Consider your audience

I have read a lot of profiles on this site and noticed some consistent patterns with those I don't take seriously. It's awesome to have a photo, but more than ... For detail, click here.
Create a meaningful profile to find a lifelong partner.

Although beautiful photos and an exaggerated profile may land you a conversation with someone, it will become impossible to create anything meaningful past "hello ... For detail, click here.
Did you post a photo that you would be proud to show your friends? your parents?

Users can tell how serious you are about an arrangement, by the work, or lack thereof, you put into your profile. Your profile is you, in written form. Things that ... For detail, click here.
Do not be negative in profile

Have you ever gone out on a first date where the person you were with complained about his/her work, ex, etc? Such negative talk is a major turnoff. Likewise, ne ... For detail, click here.
Do not contain sexual innuendo in your username or introduction

Some guys may want to know that some of us 'good girls' do not like to see usernames or introductions with sexual innuendo, such as using the number 69, the word 'fingers ... For detail, click here.
Do not pass by someone because of your spelling and grammar!

I think that everyone who takes the time to write a profile should make sure that the words are spelled correctly. I think most people (possibly incorrectly) may pass by ... For detail, click here.
Don't be timid.

Don't be afraid to say upfront what you're interested in, or what you want or expect from your 'match.' You can't get who or what you want if you either don't know what t ... For detail, click here.
Don't be too general - be specific! like 'I'm really sarcastic or I love to read.

I notice that a lot of people describe themselves as being sarcastic. That's really helpful. It would be even better if you gave us an example of your famous sarcasm. I k ... For detail, click here.
Don't be too selective for your match

The criteria for your match says a lot about you. If you are super selective, this may narrow your choices and show that you are picky. BUT if you select all options/ mak ... For detail, click here.
Don't give your name as your username

There's been a subject of concern I've noticed since being on here. Many people have a tendency to list their name in their profiles and as their user names. To me this i ... For detail, click here.
Don't judge a book by the cover

Please do not believe everything you read. Talk with this person for a while before you decide to meet. Know what he is like over the phone. Feel this person out. Usually ... For detail, click here.
Don't make your profile difficult to read!

Profile text is what will make someone genuine want to message you (especially if you don't have a picture on your profile), so don't put people off from reading what you ... For detail, click here.

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