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Upload 4-6 photos and keep them classy.

You need to post multiple pictures, I'm not saying take up all 26 spots but upload 4-6 pictures. When you post one picture men sometimes will think it's a fake profile, someo ... For detail, click here.
Upload a smile photo

When uploading your main picture, be sure to choose one that shows you are approachable. It is perfectly fine to look sexy, alluring, and coy. Those are all attractive qualit ... For detail, click here.
Up to date picture is common curtesy

It should go without saying but it makes for a very akward first meeting when there is a substantial discrepancy between someone's picture and their appreance when meeting in ... For detail, click here.
Use a "real" photo

By real i mean use a photo that shows the real you, as opposed to some glammed up 5 hours spent trying to find the best angle type of photo show something that shows your ... For detail, click here.
Using action / social photos

Action photos or social photos are always good to have as they show that you are an interesting and sociable person. These pictures are more interesting to look at than ... For detail, click here.
What not to do in a profile photo?

1. Don't just take a face shot. If you are simply taking a face shot to avoid the rest of your body, the other person may be turned off by your lack of confidence. There ... For detail, click here.
What to wear on profile pictures?

Have you also seen the super models with bikini profile-pictures, rather than that you should wear something casual, with a little to no cleavage. Go with darker but sexy ... For detail, click here.
What types of pictures are appropriate or inappropriate?

Appropriate pictures include the following: Pictures with pets, pictures on vacation, pictures other people have taken. Inappropriate pictures or pictures that w ... For detail, click here.
What types of pictures on a profile if you expect to find respectful men

Everyone nowadays has seen a naked body or two or more, so why show everything that you have in just some profile pics on a site. Leave some to the imagination or at leas ... For detail, click here.
You look better in natural lighting - stay away from flash photography

Try to stay away from photos taken utilizing a Flash! Many occasions require a flash, due to poor lighting conditions. The downside is using a flash can add as much as 10 ... For detail, click here.
Don't ask and don't tell

When starting a new relationship, old flames and flings can be a touchy subject. When in doubt, express how the last relationship has prepared you for your next relationship. ... For detail, click here.
Don't compare past relationships with your date

Dating and relationships are chock-full of lessons, experiences, intimacy, and interpersonal exchanges. Whether two people make arrangements to go on a first date or are ... For detail, click here.
Don't go into detail about your ex

Don't talk about your ex unless the other person specifically asks. It’s ok to casually mention your past relationships in conversation for example my longest relationsh ... For detail, click here.
Inform your previous partners of your current STD status.

After my diagnosis, I went to the last 3 men I had slept with to inform them of my current STD status. I was prepared for a backlash from them, but each one was understanding ... For detail, click here.
It's always important not bringing up the past too much

In the past I have talked a little too much about my ex-partners. I have noticed that it had a negative effect on what was going on in front of me. Sometimes the past should ... For detail, click here.
Just be aware when it's all the ex's fault

someone who constantly talks badly about his exes, could be hiding a strong narcisistic personality or simply cant take responsibility for his actions. Often I would date som ... For detail, click here.
When asked about previous relationships on the first date.

when asked about previous relationship keep the conversation light, especially on the first date. Nothing is more of a mood killer than a first date going on a long winde ... For detail, click here.
10 Tips to write an effective personal ad

Writing personal ads should be considered an art in its own right. For decades personal ads have appeared in magazines and newspapers all over the world, and for ... For detail, click here.
3 Important tips for an impressive profile

If I can humbly impart any useful advice to the wonderful women and men on this site that will enhance their success rate of actually receiving positive contacts it would ... For detail, click here.
5 Tips for creating an attractive profile

If you have gone through the effort of creating a profile, then great! You have taken the first step towards attracting that special someone into your life, and will pro ... For detail, click here.

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