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10 Clues for spotting a scammer

Online dating is a convenient way for busy people to meet other people. However, the virtual community is no safer than the real world. Online dating allows anonymity a ... For detail, click here.
11 Red flags during communication

These are red flags during communication with others online: 1) "Construction / Power Plant / Generator / Transformer Engineers…" 2) "Out of the Country…" 3) Misspe ... For detail, click here.
3 Things right off the cuff that can quickly spot a fraud

I've spent 9-months trying to figure out real vs fake. I thought I developed a system but after reading some of the other fraud post my process won't solve all of the issues ... For detail, click here.
5 Tips to identify a scammer profile

The profile is exactly how these scammers work: 1. Only one photo of very handsome high end looking man, exported from facebook etc. 2. Flowery language that no American ma ... For detail, click here.
9 Red flags to identify a scammer

1. So here you are texting a great (so you think) guy. He is from another country. Red Flag 2. He can't meet you for coffee as he promised because suddenly he has to leave th ... For detail, click here.
9 Similarities of scammers

From a woman's point of view. 1. They post themselves as widow. 2. Art dealers, engineers etc. 3. They will say they are from the place they posted and then ... For detail, click here.
Ask for a recent photo with face to avoid being scammed

I recently read about a group in Nigeria trolling online dating sites and then pretending to be Americans looking for love. After you develop a relationship with them, t ... For detail, click here.
Be aware of those that ask for money

Be aware of those that's on dating sites looking for scammers and spammers, these people that go around on sites likes this or any other site for that matter. They will try t ... For detail, click here.
Best practice here is to request that they post photos and become photo verified by this site.

There are specific things you can look for when someone is contacting you for the first time on this website. First, scammers are creatures of habit. They tend to use the same ... For detail, click here.
Don't be scammed

We all know that we should not give our addresses to people that we have spoken to on the site, but does everyone know the full extent of the risks we take by doing ... For detail, click here.
Don't reveal kids' photos to scammers

Dating online can be just as hard as in person, for single parents. After weeks or even months of communicating online, you may feel you know this person. He/she may prof ... For detail, click here.
For a girl, how to spot a scammer

So you're on the site, browsing and checking out what's out there and a fine gentleman sends you a wink. You view his profile and it's every girls dream! So you message h ... For detail, click here.
Get a photo to spot a scammer

Before becoming attached to anyone, male or female, have them send you photos of themselves. When you get that photo, upload it or as many as you can get through an image ... For detail, click here.
How can we trap and identify real scammers?

1. Search their profile photos in google. Scammers often impersonate military men. I met one scammer who use REAL Sergeant Major Stuart R. James. Mr. James has been Retir ... For detail, click here.
How to avoid scammers

Beware of people that say they have a high education degree but then cannot spell or do not use correct grammar. (I had one who contacted me claiming to have a Master's ... For detail, click here.
How to identify internet scams

Scammers are becoming an increasing problem on internet. Here are some tips on how not to get duped: Trust your instincts! If it doesn't seem right, it probably isn't. Memb ... For detail, click here.
How to judge a scammer by photos?

Especially since you are now on a dating site specially for someone with your kind of "handicap," do NOT settle. Scammers often have only one picture. Sometimes it's obvi ... For detail, click here.
How to spot a scammer by the way he types

Scammers are oftentimes located in other countries and English is not their first language. Here are a few mistakes these scammers always seem to make. 1. Starting a sentence ... For detail, click here.
If some member wants you to handle money for them while they are away

Protect yourself. Don't deal with anyone that is out of the country. Do not give ANY personal information to anyone you never met. If they tell you they love you and you ... For detail, click here.
Look out for ones with names switched

The ones from other country's that are just scammers. Start fast. Are in love after two sentences, talk different, say they are from here but are off working and usually wido ... For detail, click here.

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